Sex isn't going to make him fall in love
It's important that you get that misconception out of your head now. Sex isn't the key that is going to let you win his heart. It doesn't matter if you have sex with him a million times. When sex comes before love, all it does is boost lust, which is something that you want to stay away from. When you are sure that you have a solid emotional connection, then it will be okay to get more intimate. Sex is more like glue: it will bind you together. However, it is not something you want to use as a foundation for your relationship.
Your personality is what is going to hook him
Believe it or not, it is who you are on the inside that will make a guy fall in love. All of the other stuff maybe nice, but he is going to fall in love with your personality, your demeanor, your humor, your strength. He is not going to fall in love with the bikini your wearing, or the new color you died your hair. Again, all of those things might attract him to you initially, but when push comes to shove, it is you that his heart will come to love.
Respect yourself and he will respect you
Respect is a big part of relationships. How can you expect someone to love you if they do not even respect you? You can gain his respect just by how you carry yourself. You have to dress the part. Dress as if you really care about your appearance and your perception. You have to be career oriented or at least have a life goal or plan. You can't just be living at home with no thought of trying to build a better future for yourself.
Talk to him
It doesn't really matter what you talk about. It is just really important that you have a constant stream of communication. Communication is what will keep your relationship health years down the road, so it will be better if you start practicing now. Talking is also what will seal the deal with him. The better you can talk to each other, the faster he will fall for you.
What makes a guy fall in love?
You have to know that just sitting there looking pretty will not make a guy fall in love with you. You have to play a more active role if you want the relationship to last. Know that sex alone is not enough to make him fall in love with you. You have to respect yourself so you can win his respect. Talk to him and get him to open up.
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